As you research, write down facts and statistics that will answer their questions and find solutions to their concerns. Write down facts about class sizes, teaching methods, number of student borders, extracurricular opportunities, sports teams, tuition, and location. [1] X Research source
The SSAT tests students in grades 3 through 12. It costs approximately $120. 00. [2] X Research source The ISEE tests students in grades 2 through 12. It costs between $105. 00 to $185. 00. There are fee waivers available. [3] X Research source
Do the schools you are interested in offer scholarships and financial aid packages? Do you qualify for need or merit based aid? Are there independent scholarships you can apply for and receive? Are you able to work while you attend school? Will the cost of your current extracurricular activities (private music lessons, sports clubs, dance classes) offset the cost of boarding school?[4] X Research source
Your current classes aren’t challenging you. You want to take college level courses. You would benefit, or be helped by, smaller class sizes. [5] X Research source
Your current school does not have a fine arts program. Attending boarding school would increase your chances of getting accepted into a reputable performing arts college or university. [6] X Research source
You want to train and compete at a high level. Playing for this school will help you get recruited by a Division I college or university. [7] X Research source
You want focus on improving your mental, physical, and/or spiritual health. You want to receive intensive therapy while attending school. [8] X Research source
Include information about specific schools you are interested in, like cost, available aid/scholarships, class size, and location. Explain why you feel boarding school is the best option for you. “I want to attend boarding school because it will (help me prepare for college, increase my chances to play DI sports, allow me to attend therapy and school, etc. ). " Mention that you’ve started preparing for the application process. “I’ve started studying for the entrance exams. " “I have a draft of my personal statement. " “I’ve asked my current teachers to write letters of recommendation. " This will demonstrate to them that you are serious about applying to boarding school. Provide answers to your parents’ previous questions. “I know you are concerned about paying for the school. The scholarship I qualify for will help cover the cost. " “Last time we talked, you mentioned that you didn’t want me too far from home. I found an excellent boarding school just a few hours from town. "
Provide your parents with additional information, like handouts, brochures, and/or contact information for various school administrators.
You may want to take notes. This will help you keep track of all of their concerns and questions.
“You wanted to know more about the boarding school I like. Would you be open to talking to a representative from the school?” “I’m not sure how financial aid works either. Can we find someone to explain it to us?” “I understand that you love watching me play basketball. If I go to this boarding school, I would play five games within a few hours of our hometown. " “Would you be open to a boarding school closer to our hometown?” “If I improve my current grades, can I apply to boarding school?”
